Beautiful Labia

All shapes and sizes

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Anonymous asked: Just a quick comment from a 45 yo guy. I can't really remember any of my past girlfriend's labia. There ears, smile, eyes, laugh, I could pick those out of a crowd. I wanted to share for those that are self conscious. Furthermore, if someone doesn't respect your parts, how are the going to respect the whole?

Great message anon, If some one is dating because of how your body looks they don’t care about the real you. We tend to fixate on body parts and lose sight of the big picture, our bodies are beautiful and amazing and they deserve respect from others and ourselves. 

-Courtney

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Anonymous asked: Holy shit. This is awesome and super helpful.

thank you! I’m glad to hear it! 

-Courtney

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Anonymous asked: Hello I have a question that I really want answered! is it normal to have a large clitoral hood but yet a small clit? because for the longest time I thought I had a big clit but then realized it was the clit hood the actual clit under the hood is pretty small in comparison.

yes! that is quite possible. The visible clitorus can range in size greatly, It also extends on the inside of the body along the labias (it kind of looks like a wishbone) 

-Courtney

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Anonymous asked: I have a problem because i have always been really selfconscious about my vagina. The labia majora are quite big and so is my mound thing and its really obvious in my undies, even though my labia minora are tiny. Also one of my minora lips is darker than the other and its quite obvious because one is light pink and one is sort of a dark purple. my boyfriend doesnt mind but i think its disgusting :(

Vulvas come in ALL shapes and sizes! from what you described you sound completely normal! No vagina is disgusting and most people with vaginas don’t have one that looks like the ones seen in porn. You are beautiful! I hope that one day you will be able to see that. 

-Courtney

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Anonymous asked: Hey there I just wanted to ask if it's ok if I have like little hard things in my labia minora? Like tiny little stones under the skin and if I stretch the skin a little bit I can see they are actually white

just answered a ask similar to this and I think you should see a doctor, it is most likely nothing but it is better to air on the side of caution! 

-Courtney

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Anonymous asked: Hi, I have lots of little white little dots that I can squeeze a white substance out of in my vulva (I think? Not sure of the anatomy. It's on the skin just above the clitoris, and there are about 40 or so bumps.) They basically look like pimples. Some of them are hard, some of them are soft, and they're about quarter of a grain of rice in size. Do you have any idea what they could be? I've had them since puberty and I'm a virgin.

hmm if they are a corncern I would recomend seeing a doctor. But my guess is that you have built up dead skin and oil in your pores or maybe hair follicles but it is impossible to say for sure so I think you should see a doctor to put your mind at ease.( in any case it doesn’t seem like it is anything to worry too much about)

-Courtney 

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Anonymous asked: Hi:) I'm a 19 year old girl with a large labia. My clitorus hood is quite large as well. I find it can sometimes feel embarrassing wearing a bikini or short shorts. Guys my age are used to seeing women in porn who have nothing going on down there and it makes me feel insecure. I've heard guys throw around terms like "roast beef". I'm scared to ever have sex because he might be grossed out or disappointed.

Let me tell you if any person who is about to have sex with you insults your body in ANY way get the hell out of there. Anyone who doesn’t understand what real peoples bodies look like and thinks its ok to make fun of some one is not mature enough to be having sex, I don’t care if they are 16 or 38 that kind of behavior is unacceptable. Any person worthy of your time will honor and respect your body the way it is. 

-courtney

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Anonymous asked: I have always been self-conscious about my labia size. Before i went looking online at all these sites i went to the doctor and she automatically said it was bigger than usual and referred me to a gynecologist. When i saw him he said it was completely natural and i left in tears because he said there was nothing to do. I've found all these sites but i still feel just as self-conscious as before because she said they were bigger then normal. Do you have any advice on this matter?

Being “bigger” than “normal” isn not a problem! vulvas come in a wide range of sizes and colors. Your negative experience with medical staff unfortunately a fairly common occurrence. Doctors learn in school that their are things, such as labia size, that have a “normal” range of variation. What they fail to understand is how the term abnormal affect people. To them its simply a matter of a person falling outside a range but it is hurtful to many people when they are told that they are not normal. As for advice, I would let the doctor know how what they said hurt you and to be more mindful of that in the future or if that doesn’t work, try getting a new doctor if thats possible for you. As for being self-conscious, only you can figure out how to change your mindset about your body. It might be hard and it will take time, they most important thing is to love your body and understand that you deserve to be loved because your body is amazing just the way it is! 

-courtney