Until I found this site, I thought all women's labia were pretty much the same. My labia are small in comparison to some of these beautiful ladies, now I'm feeling that maybe mine are too SMALL to be enjoyed?? It seems as though men like "more", not "less". I'm feeling quite inferior now.
In all honesty, Men like vaginas, simple as that, having small labia is what most women with large labia aspire to have, dont think your inferior, Labia come in all sizes and its the variety that makes them beautiful! you’re beautiful! xoxo
Hi my labia is uneven, it sticks out from my outer lips a little bit, and is sometimes discolored and I hate it. I'm more worried about the fact that if a guy decides to finger me that he will feel it and he will be grossed out because I can always feel it and I hate it. It's stopping me to do sexual things, if a guy feels only one labia minora bigger then the other I can't imagine what he would think. And I can't help but always notice it. Even if the guy might not. Please help me.
Please dont worry yourself sweets, your vagina sounds totaly normal and no guy would even notice your labia, you notice it because youre so aware of it, love yourself xoxo
I have been self concious about my vagina since iw as 15, i am now 19 - i have a big, i mean big, mons pubis, and outter labia, i dont really have inner labias.. this insecurities have made me do things i would have never done....
Your vagina sounds perfectly normal, please remember that all vulvas are unique, try to love what you have, you’re beautiful! xoxo
A few days ago My friend had told me one of my exes was hanging out with her and some other people and he had brought up my large labia lips and he was making fun of them. i had never talked to anyone about my vagina because im so insecure about it and her telling me he said something about it totally made me fall apart. But this blog helped me feel a lot better about it and myself. So I just wanted to say thank you so much for making this blog!
Thankyou! It’s so nice to hear that this blog is helping people! You’re beautiful! Xoxo
I'm 16 years old and I have always hated my labia. I really want surgery but I don't think I can get it because it is too expensive and I'm scared of some of the out comes. A lot of my friends have had sex and I want to but I'm too scared to because I'm afraid I'm going to get judged. Do you think the guy will notice or not? I just feel like he is going to be disgusted and I will be the talk of the school. I NEED advice.
Firstly, only have sex if youre truely ready and use a condom if you are, don’t be worried about your vagina, no matter its appearance its normal and beautiful, most likely the guy wont notice and will just be grateful to be having sex, you’re beautiful, love yourself
I really love the blog you guys have going here, but, my concern with this blog is why don't you guys focus a bit more on color as well. Personally I don't have a problem with the size or shape of my vulva but I do have a major problem with the color, it's very dark, not just slightly darker. In my case the higher pigmentation is on my vulva and goes down to my inner thighs, making it look like a very dark tornado haha. I'm sure whoever my partner is would look at it and double think oral.
We do try to focus on pigmentation too! all skintones can have different coloured labia, its totally normal and much more common than you think. Please dont feel that you’re not normal because yours is dark because thats really not the case! Love yourself xoxo
Almost everyone I have been in a physical relationship with has made it a point to make me feel disgusted my my body, especially my vagina. An ex of mine a few years ago said that he couldn’t cum during sex because my labia was so ugly and distracting. Last year i was physical with two guys who happened to be close friends. (we were all close friends) They would talk about how ugly my vagina is in front of me all of the time. I was already so insecure. It was (and still is) a terrible feeling.
Now i am in a relationship with a man who assures me that my labia and all other parts of me are beautiful, but i still feel so insecure and can’t help but think about all the other guys who have said otherwise…
Seeing this blog has helped me feel more normal. I like seeing posts about girls with small labia who are also insecure. I guess it’s just like any other body part, no matter what it looks like some women will be insecure about it.
I just hope men REALLY don’t care about what it looks like. I feel like every guy I meet prefers them to be small. I hope I can eventually come to terms with the way I look because it sucks when you’re trying to be intimate but all you can think about is your ugly vagina.
Most men really dont care what you look like downstairs and usually will have to same worrys about thier genitalia (length, width, etc). We really hope you learn to love your vagina and realise that every vagina is different. If running this blog has shown me anything, its shown me no matter how long or short labia are, women are insecure of how they look! You’re nornmal and beautiful!
I nearly mutilated myself because of my insecurities with my labia size: one side is small but the other is dark and long. This blog made me realize that I am a beautiful woman among beautiful women and my labia are part of who I am. Thank you for creating a haven for women to see that they are not strange or abnormal.
Im very happy you didnt decide to mutilate yourself! you are beautiful!
I just wanted to let you know that i really like what you are doing here. I never knew women could be so self-conscious about their lady parts,- i guess I have been to busy fretting over my penis size :-). Anyway it is important to be open about your feelings in a relationship, and exploration of the private parts is always fun, exciting, educational, sexy, and can bring you closer together as a couple. I have never in my life been disgusted by lady parts!!
hi, love the blog, really great to see variety :) i am 17 and i have really really tiny labia minora, like really really small, i cant even find my clitoris and quite large labia majora (i think?) as the inside ones are completely encased, you can't even see them unless you... dig around a bit, for lack of a better word. is this normal/okay? after looking at this blog, it feels unusual.
What you have is very normal! You’re beautiful and natural!
I have a somewhat darker labia that sticks out a little, and I've always been so self-conscious about it, to the point that I haven't let guys go down on me or anything of that sort. This blog is absolutely wonderful and made me realize I'm not alone at all, despite how porn and the media portrays 'normal' genitalia. Thank you so so much for running this!
Thankyou! im glad it makes you feel a little better!
I've just found this page... I'd like to say something to all women out there... Don't be ashamed of your pussy. I'm a guy and I absolutely LOVE pussy. Small, big, puffy, thin... It's all beautiful. Ladies, be proud of it. Don't think a guy will not like it, he'll love it the way it is, and if not then he's not worth your attention. Don't give yourself to that type of guy. Give yourself to the guy who'll respect you and not care about what's between your legs.. he'll love you the way you are.
What you guys do is fabulous! For along time I struggled with my labia's appearance because I thought they were deformed. As I've gotten older, I realized that I am completely normal! Just because small labia are (for lack of a better word) "mainstream", does notmake them any more normal then large ones. I personally would NEVER discriminate anyone's genitals,and nobody should personally do that to them self! Come to terms with difference, there are people like me who LOVE it!
Thankyou for your kind words.
Happy you feel comfortable with your body